How I Plan a Holiday Menu Without Stressing
Because Christmas dinner should feel cozy, not chaotic The holidays have a funny way of turning people who love to cook into people who are suddenly overwhelmed by it. Too many dishes. Too many opinions. Too many expectations wrapped up in one meal. The stress doesn’t come from cooking itself — it comes from trying to do everything at once. Somewhere along the way, holiday meals became about volume instead of intention. More sides. More apps. More “just in case.” And before you know it, you’re stuck in the kitchen all day, exhausted, while the food somehow still feels rushed. Here’s the shift that changed everything for me: I don’t plan dishes. I plan how I want the meal to feel. Before I think about a single ingredient, I decide the vibe. Cozy or elegant? Traditional or flexible? Sit-down dinner or relaxed grazing? Once that’s clear, decisions get easier fast. The menu starts narrowing itself instead of expanding. Next, I choose one anchor dish. Just one. This is the thin...